Love, soul sister, true happiness, and finding ourselves...

I was listening to this new nice song I found at youtube, and I thought about love and soul sister...

You might think I am crazy or that I don't believe in real love anymore, but who said we all have a soul sister? Why exactly we need to have a so-called pair, a person who would understand us completely and with whom we should spend the rest of our lives with? Why do we have to find this soul sister in order to be truly happy?!

In the last few weeks I thought a lot about myself and my life, and I realized that I don't think I have a soul sister... I don't see myself spending the rest of my life with anyone in particular. Then you might say that this is because I still haven't found my soul sister, but I guess this isin't the reason.

I think some people are just like that: they were not born in order to have a soul sister. Besides that, I don't really believe we need to be with someone to be truly happy.

We all need our family and friends and, of course, we also need romantic love and we fall in love. We date and we even get marry, but the truth is that our true happiness isin't related to being with someone (or any particular someone). This romantic love isin't enough for pure happiness or we can say our happiness is not depending of any romantic love.

I found out that my happiness is about finding myself, and not finding a soul sister... I guess we have to find ourselves before searching for any soul sister we might have (if we have any).

As a matter of fact, we won't be able to find any soul sister if we don't first find ourselves: who we really are, what we want from life and from ourselves, what we like and why we are here.

We are all humans, but we are still individuals and we need to find out deep inside who we are. True happiness and peace of soul is about understanding our nature. It is about discovering ourselves and what makes us unique and different from the others.

Do I have a soul sister? I don't think so, and I truly don't care about it. At least not right now. Now it is time to finding myself and to understand who I am :-)

There is something my mom once taught that I will never forget, so I thought about sharing this with you guys. When I was a child, I said to my mom that she was the person I loved more in my life. The she came to me and said the following words: you are the most important person in your life and there is nothing more important than self-love.

I still love her more than anything else in this life, but I will never forget what she said.

Here is the nice song I was talking about.

Take care and enjoy it :-)